I realized it some time ago.
Saying that everyone is different would be a truism.
Saying that people have different values would be a truism as well.
Naturally, as I am telling that to you, you feel that you have experienced that before.
You remember those neverending arguments about something that did not even came close to what you thought you would care about.
Yeah people think differently.
Coming back to the root of all evil is what our experience of the world is.
I remember an argument about two people, whether a divorce between the two parents was a “good” or “bad” thing for the child.
No “good” or “bad” answers. Different contexts. Therefore different values.
One is “Protect the integrity of the family for the child”
One is “Get rid of that tensed atmosphere by seperating”
And behind those values, only positive intention.
ALWAYS believe that there is positive intention.
We’re just so messed up we forgot how to communicate.
We’re asked to play perfectly with a badly tuned violin.